FOR THE FACILITATOR

FOR THE FACILITATOR

Thank you for leading your small group or MicroChurch through Be The Way. Here are some things to keep in mind as you facilitate the gatherings.

PRAY

  • Be in prayer. Pray for each participant by name. 

  • Ask the Father to speak through His Word and Spirit. Ask Jesus to reveal Himself as Savior and Lord. Invite the Holy Spirit to lead your gatherings. 

PREPARE

  • Work through each week’s lesson on your own. 

  • Meet with the Lord as you read the Bible passages and answer the questions. Become familiar with the content and engage your heart with the truths.

LEAD

  • Don’t be afraid to lead your group at the weekly gatherings.

  • Direct, but don’t dominate. Don’t monopolize the conversation.

  • Your role isn’t to teach, but to ask good questions, to direct your group to God’s Word and to actively listen to their responses and the Spirit’s leading.

  • Be The Way combines Bible readings and discovery questions. Use the questions provided, rewording them and adding follow-up questions as needed.

Good things happen when you ask good questions.

  • Note rabbit trails and pull your group back to the main path.

  • Here are some simple guidelines for your group:

    • Everyone gets to participate, but no one is allowed to dominate.

    • What’s shared here, stays here.

  • When someone shares something sensitive, remind the group of the value of confidentiality.

  • It’s important for you to quickly get on top of someone who is dominating the gathering. And it’s not hard to do. Just break in and say, “Thanks for that, Sue. Juan, what do you think?”

  • If Sue continues to dominate, the next time you ask a question, don’t leave any space for her to chime in. Direct the next question to someone else. “Nigel, how would you answer our next question?”

  • Nothing will kill your gathering like a domineering person. So be direct and protect your group.


 

When leading your MicroChurch, think of yourself as a band or orchestra director. You’re not making the music all by yourself. You’re bringing out the music from the family. So to speak, all you have is a conductor baton. They’re the ones with the instruments. Of course, you’re going to participate in the conversation as well. But work hard at drawing others into that conversation.

 

LOVE

  • Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn (Romans 12:15 - NIV). Follow up on personal matters shared at the gatherings. Reach out to the person during the week to see how he or she is doing.

  • Encourage people to connect with each other between gatherings to build community. Be The Way will guide you to pair people up to stay connected throughout the week.

PASS THE BATON

  • Be The Way is a great way for people to try leading a gathering and explore if they are being called to lead a MicroChurch.

  • At the end of each gathering, select a new facilitator to lead the next gathering.

  • Encourage this new facilitator to read through FOR THE FACILITATOR.

  • Assist this new facilitator as needed and be in prayer for him or her.

HELP!

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